Wanna be an ambivert? Here’s how

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In case you didn’t read the previous article, go read it here. This is a continuation of that one. Now that you’ve done that, let’s proceed.

Being an ambivert has been an extremely rewarding experience for me. I have connected deeply with so many great individuals which I never would have, had I been the same socially-anxious person. I guarantee every person will experience benefits by applying the following principles.

 

For Introverts

Be social

1. Start going for small social events

Join clubs of your liking. Look up local meetups on Facebook, Meetup and other sites where people with your favorite hobby come together. There are so many trekking clubs I notice around here. I started with book clubs. It’s always fun to be around people who share your love for the same things!

2. Take up a social skill

Find a skill that requires you to be social and get good at it. Learn an instrument, play a sport, join a dancing class or work with actors in a play. When you get good at these, your social fears will vanish and you will boost confidence. Talk about win-win!

3. Join college clubs

This is a bonus for students in schools or colleges. There must be some clubs around your campus, go join them. If there aren’t any, start one! Schools and colleges are perhaps the easiest places to start being social.

4. Always keep enough time to recharge

Most importantly, keep a lot of time in-between your social commitments so that you can recharge yourself well enough.

 

For Extroverts

Spend time by yourself and reflect

1. Meditate

Meditation is an excellent skill to develop greater control over your mind. My basic three step process is- breathe deeply, silence all thoughts and then affirm everything you are and what you want to be. Do this for a few days and you will se amazing results.

2. Journal

Journaling is similar to meditation as in it provides relief to your mind. Just get a new notebook and write down anything you want to. How your day went, what your dreams are- everything. It helps you get to know yourself better. Once a day is fine at first- either first thing in the morning or just before going to bed. After a few days of practice, slowly start to write more positive and lesser negative.

3. Affirmations

Create a set of affirmations to say to yourself after meditating. Examples include- I am strong enough to face my fears, I will be successful, I choose to be calm and happy in all circumstances and so on. Do these daily and you will start to believe it. Pretty cool way to reprogram your brain, eh?

4. Reading

Reading is the best way to learn empathy. The ability to understand life from someone else’s perspective. When you read fiction, you see life from the perspective of the character. You understand why they do what they do. You develop critical thinking.

 

Note: It’s very long drawn process and it will take weeks or even months to start working. Keep taking small steps daily and it’ll happen. Cheers to an amazing life ahead of you!

 

Related articles:

Introvert or extrovert? You need to be both

Do you have this superpower?

Why ‘Live in the moment’ is bad advice

Importance of open-mindedness

 

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